Hola! gracias por la ayuda de antemano...como te decia soy bastante nueva en esto y no se muy bien si enviarte el codigo de toooda la pagina o solo la parte especifica del video... te envio lo q "creo que es"

si faltara algo me dices para ponerlo.
Código :
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